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Wat a sad story I have. I'm arranging my marriage but unfortunately for me, I have to go through all the obstacles. This time, my family are worried about H1N1 and they are suggesting to do a small akad first then later on maybe in 6 months after the H1N1 have subside, do the reception pulak. Mana tak aku become crazy and really mad. These are my few arguments:

Akad Nikah in Masjid Wilayah is permitted but reception have to be postponed. This doesnt make sense to me because:

1) Masjid Wilayah is a public places. If H1N1 nak kena, we should be in the house and not public places that will have a lot of ppl.

2) My akad is on Friday @10:30 in the morning, where Solat Jumaat will be taking place. As you know, and everyone knows, solat jumaat there will be quite a big crowd of Muslimin coming for prayer. Moreover, its not a small mosque or unpopular mosque. Wouldnt we be passing the crowd too. Takkan tak bertembung kan? If the ppl yang bertembung tuh ada H1N1, macamana?

3) Another reason my family give was, the tempat akad n tempat solat different place. Yes, I agree but it is all in under one roof. So kalau nak pi toilet. You still have to go out of the room / dewan to go to toilet.

4) The akad nikah room and the dewan makan is a seperate rooms and you still need to go out the passage way to go to the dewan makan.

5) My family is letting me invite my office friends. My office frends are 70 ppl, not including their spouse and children. This is not consider a small gathering anymore. Wat is the different between the akad nikah kenduri and the reception. This is a mind boggling.

6) If just in case the government order a caffeur, wouldn't the tok kadi also is not permitted to go out of the house?

7) My family said, the akad nikah is a small group than the reception. Reception is a total of 400 ppl. 250 ppl on my side, and 150 ppl in his side. Actually the invitation is only 100 ppl because it is cosider couple. Meanwhile, all the ppl that aren't invited to the reception will be invited to the akad nikah. Consider this, it includes my officemate that is around more than 70 ppl plus their spouse and children, including my aunties friends, mothers frends and neighbours and families. So you make you own head count. I think it will be more than the reception.

Nevertheless, to do a nikah gantung will have difficulties such as:
1) Wat if i were to pregnant. So the reception will be a totally cancel. I will not do the reception anymore after I gave birth.

2) It will cause fitnah when he brings me around like balik kg especially when I have a belly. Because the purpose of reception and kenduri is to tell ppl we are legally married and to jamu org makan.

3) After marriage, we will need money to build our family, house etc...so when we have important things to spend on, we will thing twice to spend on an expensive reception.

4) I have to diet again. And spend money and time on that.

5) We do not know when is H1N1 will be over. And we do not know if the condition will get worse or better. Wat if after 6 months there are new viruses emerged?

6) If the reason because H1N1, can we stop ppl from deliver a baby. Oh by the way, my cousin, that is my uncle's daughter is pregnant. Im just wondering, can he stop his daughter from giving birth. Some more pregnant women are high risk. Additional to that, my cousin is a doctor and she is working in a hospital. Does she stop working in a hospital because of H1N1? I think you know wat is my point.

7) Just to add, my akad nikah is the same day with Serina (Chef Wan's daughter). She is doing her akad in the same mosque as I am, only hers is in the evening. Will she do the reception after that or will she hault her reception because H1N1? Another celebrity is having her wedding in January is Umie Aida. For me, artist guest list are alot more than I am with all the reporters. If they can proceed their wedding smoothly without 'sangkak' (obstacles) I will be very very dam devastated.

8) I have to argue with my auntie about room. She is giving me a hard time in clearing up the room. Wat she is doing is only making me feel worse and insulted. Cakap lain, buat lain. Tapi kita bersabar dan berserah pada yg Esa.

Conclusion.

If Allah say, Im not destined to marry this guy. Than at that time God will do something, things that I cannot avoid to get marry. But if only ppl just creating a big fuss and problems, that is call tak dak pasai carik pasai. Im just tension and sad, a marriage could be simple and easy, but why everyone is making a difficult time for me?

Ppl passing by in front of the akad nikad room during friday prayer

Ppl 'lepaking' in front of the dewan makan

Ppl 'lepaking' in front of the akad nikah room

Wat a beautiful mosque with a magnificant arhitecture.

4th day fasting '09

Today is my fourth day of fasting. This year is a little bit different than the rest of the years that I'm being fasting. That is because..ehem..ehem...hahaha....just thinking about it I feel like laughing.

Saya berniaga di pasar Ramadhan. Since when I become one of those peniaga? hahaha....funny. Me..selling kuih :). I have this intention long time ago but never being fullfil inspite of the tapak was full, auntyMah think I'm just fooling around and do not know wat to sell and how to get all the bahan2. If I want to sell tebu, I do not know where to get the machine tebu. If I want to sell tau fu fa, I do not know how to do it. If I want to sell ikan bakar, I got no time to bakar because I will just start to sell only after 5 o'clock, after work, yes I'm working full time and I want to do this as my part time. Plus I want to solat terawaih afterwards. Is this possible?

Anyway, I managed to get a tapak this year. It's a new place they are opening @ seksyen 7 Bandar Baru Bangi. Then I forced my bf to get a shot and register the food course. Then my problem was, wat on earth that I want to sell. I surf a few list that I had on how to do it. Then @ last we decided to sell kordial drinks anddadih. Things that can be prepared the day before. I was forced to agree because of the time constrain.

I started selling on Saturday. I was glad the first day puasa was a off day. That week was also a school holidays. Because I was selling on Saturday, Antymah suggessted that I sell kuih eventhough it doesn't give much money because it was taken from a makcik kuih. Then we sell a little bit extra. Kuih Bakar - 50 cent, kuih koci - 50 cent, kuih bekang ubi - 3 for RM1, kuih talam keladi - 3 for RM1 and talam ubi - 3 for RM1.

The first day, I was screaming just before we reached the pasar Ramadhan because I was embarassed. I feel like ct nurhaliza when she was small selling karipap...hehehe.. The pasar Ramadhan was a small pasar Ramadhan. Less than 20 stall was up. Not many people come to the bazaar maybe because it is a new place and people went back to kg to celebrate fasting month with their loved ones. I was a bit dissapointed. Because he said, we will try again tomorrow and the day after.

On Monday, is a diffcult time because it was a working day. I took 2 days off that was on Monday and Tuesday. Just to take the kuih from Damansara. Tuesday sales was quite dissapointing because more and more penjaja moved to another tapak.

As for today, Im writing this blog, I will not sell anything yet. Today I will go and survey another place. We havent decided yet how we are going to continue.

This is the reality of doing business. Not everyone become rich and success in doing business. There are always 50 percentage of losing and success. I hope at least we will balik modal. This is another example of my stubbornese and wanting to try new things. :)

Selamat Berpuasa!!!

Kaedah baru mengawal Virus H1N1

Cara Virus H1N1 berjangkit dari satu individu ke satu individu yang lain adalah sama sepertimana jangkitan selsema biasa.

Proses jangkitan 1:

Apabila seseorang yang sedang dijangkiti virus selsema ia batuk atau bersin, virus yang berada dalam rongga hidung dan kerongkong akan keluar dan tersebar melalui udara.

Jumlah virus yang banyak dan tepu seperti diatas jika dihidu oleh individu lain boleh menyebabkan ianya dijangkiti.
Peringkat permulaan virus akan hinggap dibahagian pangkal hidung, jika terdapat sedikit lembapan dan kotoran maka virus ini akan terus dapat hidup dan membiak.

http://www.camfilfarr.com/cou_camfil/industries/care/infection_transfer.cfm

Proses jangkitan 2:

Apabila terdapat individu pesakit duduk dalam satu bilik yang tidak ada pengaliran udara yang baik.

Nafas pesakit yang mengandungi virus akan memenuhi ruang bilik tersebut. Jika ada individu yang lain memasuki bilik tersebut, jangkitan akan bermula.

Proses jangkitan 3:
Mereka yang kuat sistem immunity apabila terkena jangkitan tetap berkeadaan stabil dan tidak menunjukan tanda yang membimbangkan, kecuali rasa sedikit panas di bahagian muka atau sesetangah anggota badan, apabila mereka menghampiri kanak-kanak atau individu yang lemah sistem immunity, jangkitan mudah terjadi.

Proses jangkitan 4:

Terdiri dari mereka yang sudah hampir sembuh sepenuhnya dari selsema yang kuat, kecuali selsema di peringkat akhir, saki-baki virus masih ada, masih berpotensi untuk membawa jangkitan, kecuali setelah sembuh sepenuhnya.

Pembiakan virus:

Virus yang hinggap di pangkal hidung dapat membiak dengan memakan kotoran yang terdapat dalam hidung. Hidung akan memberi reaksi untuk mengeluarkan virus-virus ini dengan cara bersin. Walaubagaimanapun jika terdapat lembapan dan kotoran yang sesuai dalam hidung, virus ini tidak lagi dapat dikeluarkan oleh proses bersin. Kemudian hidung akan mengeluarkan sejenis cecair untuk memerangkap virus yang dikenali sebagai cecair hingus, cecair ini akan mengalir ke dua arah, satu kearah lubang hidung dan satu lagi kearah tekak.

Kedua-dua arah cecair ini merbahaya dan hendaklah dikeluarkan.

1) Dari rongga hidung ia hendaklah dikeluarkan, kemudian cuci rongga hidung menggunakan air yang bersih dengan cara menyedut air dengan perlahan-lahan hemudian hembuskannya. Lakukan beberapa kali sehingga terasa bersih rongga hidung, dengan cara ini virus dan kotoran dapat dikeluarkan.

2) Cecair hingus yang mengalir ke arah tekak jangan sekali-kali ditelan, kerana ia mengandungi virus. Jika ditelan akan mengakibatkan virus masuk kedalam sistem tubuh dan mengakibatkan demam.

Kaedah pencegahan 1:

Kerapkan mencuci rongga(lubang) hidung dengan air yang bersih dengan cara menyedut air menggunakan hidung dan menghembuskannya. Lakukan sekurang-kurangnya 5 kali sehari atau seberapa kerap yang mungkin. Cara ini dapat mengelakan berkumpul kotoran menjadi mendapan yang sesuai untuk pembiakan virus selsema.

Apabila bahagian ini telah dibersihkan virus yang masuk tidak dapat bertahan kerana tidak ada sebarang sumber makanan. Kaedah pembersihan rongga hidung belum diketahui dalam ilmu kesihatan moden sehingga ke hari ini. Bagaimanapun kaedah ini telah diajar olen Nabi Muhammad SAW sejak 1400 tahun lebih yang lalu. Iaitu sunnah sebelum berwudhu memasukkan air ke dalam hidung kemudian menghembuskannya, diulangi sebanyak 3 kali.

http://www.angelfire.com/pro/sembahyang/wuduk.html

Kaedah pencegahan 2:

Apabila anda mula dijangkiti, anda akan terasa kurang selesa dibahagian dalam rongga hidung, diikuti bersin yang berturut-turut(tanda-tanda awal selsema).

Tindakan pantas yang perlu anda ambil ialah mencari air dan mencuci dalam rongga hidung seberapa cepat dan kerap yang mungkin, cara ini dapat mengeluarkan virus yang baru hinggap dalam rongga hidung. Diikuti cecair pekat yang mengalir ke arah tekak hendaklah dikeluarkan melalui ludah. Kaedah ini dapat menyekat virus dari masuk kedalam tubuh.

Jika ditelan, virus yang masuk akan mendatangkan masalah kepada organ-organ dalaman seperti paru-paru dan sebagainya. Dalam masa yang sama dapatkan ubatan yang disyorkan oleh doktor untuk kawalan virus selsema. Dan dapatkan produk yang dapat menguatkan sistem immunity seperti Habbatussauda. Habbatussauda dapat mengawal virus selsema dengan mantap dan berkesan, ini telah banyak dibuktikan oleh kajian saintifik dan pengalaman mereka yang pernah menggunakannya.

Habbatussauda bersifat panas, kering dan anti bakteria, anda boleh memakannya secubit setiap setengah jam sehingga kesan-kesan selsema hilang sepenuhnya. http://alumnifiad.youneed.us/kesehatan-f21/habbatus-saudah-t61.htm

Quarantine(pengasingan):

Individu yang telah di asingkan kerana sedang dijangkiti virus selsema hendaklah mengambil ambil berat beberapa perkara supaya pesakit tersebut cepat sembuh, dalam masa yang sama tidak menjangkiti individu yang lain.

1) Makan ubatan dengan mengikut aturan dan nasihat doktor.

2) Jika mampu ke bilik air:
Kerapkan mencuci rongga hidung apabila terasa banyak lembapan berkumpul iaitu menggunakan air dengan kaedah diatas.
Mengeluarkan kahak sekerap mungkin dan jangan sekali-kali ditelan. Tugas cecair kahak dan cecair hidung untuk memerangkap virus, tugas kita mengeluarkannya melalui berludah.

3) Apabila bersin atau batuk hendaklah tutup mulut dan hidung dengan dua tapak tangan atau berlapik dengan kain.

4) Didalam bilik sediakan satu kipas angin yang menghala ke arah tingkap, fungsi kipas angin ini untuk mengeluarkan udara tercemar dari bilik tersebut. Jika tidak, udara dalam bilik tersebut akan menjadi tepu dengan virus selsema dan boleh menjangkiti individu lain yang masuk. Dengan fungsi kipas ini, udara bilik sentiasa bersih.

5) Sebagai tambahan dimusim selsema, gunakan pewangi udara yang mengandungi anti bakteria untuk tempat berair-cond seperti pejabat, dewan, kereta, bas dan sebagainya. Banyak produk ini dipasaran seperti Dettol, Nanomist dan lain-lain.

Jika anda mampu, anda boleh gunakan alat penapis udara yang biasa dikenali UV air purifiers, ionizers,air filters dan sebaginya. Walaubagaimanapun asas kepada kesihatan bermula dari diri anda sendiri, sebab ditempat yang terdedah anda tidak punyai perisai kecuali kebersihan diri.

Langkah berjaga-jaga:

• Jarakkan diri dari individu yang terkena jangkitan atau yang masih belum sembuh sepenuhnya pada jarak 2 meter jika anda tidak menggunakan mask(penutup hidung).
  Jangan masuk bilik yang ada individu terkena selsema kecuali menggunakan mask.
  


• Individu yang sudah baik dari demam tetapi masih batuk berkahak, hendaklah menjarakkan diri dari individu yang sihat, terutama anak-anak kecil dan orang-orang tua, kerana saki-baki virus masih ada kecuali telah sembuh sepenuhnya.
  Penggunaan kipas ke arah tingkap untuk mengeluarkan udara tercemar adalah sangat penting untuk mengelakan penularan virus dalam kawasan bertutup seperti rumah, pejabat dan sebagainya.
  
• Walaupun anda dalam keadaan sihat, jangan abaikan kebersihan rongga hidung kerana itulah pintu masuk bermacam-macam virus yang boleh menyebabkan selsema, asma, resdung dan sebagainya. Paling kurang lima kali sehari iaitu sebelum mengambil wudhu. Ini adalah sunnah Rasulullah SAW yang banyak mengandungi hikmah dan rahsia, ia tidak boleh dipandang remeh, dengan penemuan kaedah ini insyaallah semuga masalah virus H1N1 akan selesai.

Firman Allah dalam surah Al-Anbiya, ayat 107 bermaksud:"Dan tidak kami (Allah) utuskan kamu(wahai Muhammad) melainkan untuk menjadi rahmat bagi sekalian alam."

**Perhatian: Artikel ini berdasarkan penemuan dan pemerhatian, belum disahkan oleh kajian saintifik. Jika anda fikir ada benarnya, sila fowardkan kepada kenalan.
Sekian wassalam, semuga memberi manafaat.

Outstation

Today he is going outstation to a very remote place in Kelantan. If you can imagine, travelling time alone takes 12 hours. That's very far away in spite we are in Malaysia. Anyway, my mind racing on the schedule that I will do to occupy myself while he is away.

Friday - dentist
Saturday - Eat Dim Sum with *ina & her baby & shop my baju raya.
Sunday - Go to kolam air panas & see a bridal shop in Gombak.

Hope the schedule will make me pack.

Moving

These 2 days, we have to move to rezise to a smaller cubicle. I had troubled fighting for my right for the place I want. I will tell you later if I have mood to talk about the incident. Anyway, I just finish vacumn my cubicle and rearrange all my stuff. Lucky for me that I just work for only 2 years. After another 2 years, we will move again to a new renovate building. Why we have to move so much? hmmm...

I have to get use to my new place now. It is smaller than the one that I had. If I got time and a camera, I will capture the picture to show all of you. Tired of carrying all the tables, partitions and drilling. Why cant men in my office are more helpful? Thats sad. I scold my bf for not being sensitive and caring about my moving eventhough he is also had to move too. This is because, they hire people to do the carrying stuff. I just need a little gesture from him just to make an effort of helping me. Tired n sad.

how soweet

I just came back from my outstation in bkt tangga, perlis. It was tiring. I was sick with high tempreture. My boyfriend can be so sweet sleep over in my house just to drive me to work this morning (of course with antymah permission). And now im begging him to send me back because im more sick and want to go home. Pls take me home so i can rest and eat ika foods.